This music video has gotten some heat in that it has a pretty dramatic scene in it with a girl in a bathtub slicing her wrists. But the message of this song is SO powerful. Talking about changing the voices in your head, and the fact that we while we will never measure up, YOU MATTER. You are important. I hope that my children, my wife know that this is how I feel about them. It doesn't matter - I love them. They always will be.... perfect to me.